Surrogacy can be a wonderful way to build a family. By following these dos and don’ts, you can increase your chances of having a successful surrogacy journey.
Here are some important things to keep in mind.
Dos:
- Do your research: Before you even start the surrogacy process, it is important to do your research and learn as much as you can about the process. This includes learning about the different types of surrogacy, the costs involved, and the legal requirements.
- Find a reputable agency or clinic: Once you have decided that surrogacy is the right choice for you, it is vital to find a reputable agency or clinic to help you through the process. A good agency or clinic will have a team of experienced professionals who can guide you through the process and help you find a qualified surrogate.
- Be prepared for the emotional roller coaster: Surrogacy can be an emotional roller coaster, so it is important to be prepared for the ups and downs. There will be times when you are feeling excited, hopeful, and scared. It is essential to have a strong support system in place to help you through the tough times.
- Communicate with your surrogate: It is vital to communicate openly and honestly with your surrogate throughout the process. This will help to build trust and rapport, which is essential for a successful surrogacy journey.
- Be flexible: Things do not always go according to plan in surrogacy, so it is essential to be flexible and adaptable. Be prepared for unexpected delays, complications, and changes in plans.
Don’ts:
- Don’t rush into anything: Surrogacy is a big decision, so it is paramount to take your time and make sure that it is the right choice for you. Do not feel pressured to make a decision before you are ready.
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions: There is no such thing as a stupid question when it comes to surrogacy. If you do not understand something, ask your agency or clinic for clarification.
- Don’t try to control the process: Surrogacy is a team effort, and it is important to trust your surrogate and your agency or clinic. Do not try to micromanage the process or control every aspect of it.
- Don’t give up: Surrogacy can be a long and challenging process, but it is vital to never give up hope. If you are struggling, reach out for support from your agency or clinic, your surrogate, or your friends and family.
- Don’t skip legal agreements: Ensure all legal aspects, including contracts and parental rights, are clearly defined and agreed upon by all parties involved.
