Surrogacy and adoption are both ways to build a family, but they are very different processes.
Here are some differences between surrogacy and adoption:
- Genetic relationship: In surrogacy, the intended parents can choose to use their own eggs and sperm, or they can use donor eggs or sperm. This means that the child born through surrogacy can be genetically related to the intended parents, or they can be a mix of genetic material from the intended parents and donors. In adoption, the child is not genetically related to the adoptive parents.
- Cost: Surrogacy is typically more expensive than adoption. The cost of surrogacy includes IVF costs, legal fees, and other expenses. The cost of adoption varies depending on the type of adoption and the agency or facilitator used.
- Timeframe: Surrogacy can be a quicker process than adoption. The average time to complete a surrogacy arrangement is about 12 months. The average time to complete an adoption can vary widely, but it can take several years.
- Legal process: The legal processes surrounding surrogacy depends on the country or state. It often involves contracts, medical screenings, and court proceedings to establish the intended parents’ legal rights. Adoption involves a legal process through which the adoptive parents assume parental rights, and the birth parents relinquish their parental rights. Adoption laws also vary by jurisdiction.
- Level of control: In surrogacy, intended have more say—they can choose the surrogate, decide on the type of surrogacy, and set the terms. In contrast, adoptive parents might not have as much control. They might have limited ability to choose the child, and the terms of adoption may not be entirely up to them.
- Post-birth contact: In surrogacy, intended parents become legal parents at birth with optional post-birth contact with the surrogate. In adoption, birth parents are legal parents until finalised, after which adoptive parents gain legal rights, and birth parents have none.
- Success rates: The success rate of surrogacy is about 90%. The success rate of adoption varies depending on the type of adoption and the agency or facilitator used.
If you are considering surrogacy or adoption, it is important to do your research and talk to experienced professionals. They can help you understand the process and make the best decision for your family.
