Becoming a surrogate is a big decision, but it can also be a very rewarding experience. If you are considering becoming a surrogate, it is important to understand what is involved and how you can be the best surrogate possible.
Here are some dos and don’ts to keep in mind:
Dos:
- Focus on your health: Staying healthy is one of the most important things you can do to be a good surrogate. Make sure to eat a healthy diet, exercise regularly, and get plenty of rest.
- Maintain Open Communication: This is a team effort, so it is vital to keep everyone in the loop about your pregnancy and how you are feeling.
- Create a strong support system: Surrogacy can be a challenging experience, so it is important to have a strong support system in place. This could include your family, friends, and therapist.
- Adhere to Legal Agreements: Comply with all legal agreements and commitments made during the surrogacy arrangement.
Don’ts:
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions: Surrogacy is a complex process, so there will be a lot of things you do not know. Do not be afraid to ask your surrogacy specialist or intended parents for clarification.
- Don’t overlook the intended parents’ feelings: Remember that the intended parents are going through a lot of emotions too. Be sensitive to their feelings and be mindful of how your words and actions might affect them.
- Don’t rush through the legal process: The surrogacy contract is an important document that outlines your rights and responsibilities. Take your time to read it carefully and make sure you understand everything before you sign it.
- Don’t leave your loved ones out of the process: Surrogacy is a big decision that will affect your entire family. Make sure you talk to your loved ones about your decision and get their support.
- Don’t Ignore Health Guidelines: Neglecting medical advice or guidelines can impact the well-being of both the surrogate and the unborn child.
